ok this is kinda a tl;dr type of thing so leave now if u do not care


Well, i started dating this girl last fall, and we fell into love blah blah blah. We would get into the occasional fight and i would say something stupid and make her cry, and her being very close to her mother would tell her the story. ( thus having the parents hate me). She would tell them her side of the story and would obv leave out all the details of why i flipped on her for being an annoying jealous bitch, thus making me look like a jackass, even though i treated her very well. So, I went away to college an hour and a half away, and she is still at home ( Senior at my old high school). She dumped me 4 weeks into college claiming " I cant take the distance and not being able to see you when I need you". This was said over a txt message while i was in class btw. So ya it was pretty fucked up. Well, she txts me yesterday and says she wants to get back together, but says her mother told her " I forbid you from dating bill " ( no lie ). She says she wants to date next fall when she comes to my school. Partly because her parents hate me and she " needs time ". we would be free to date people inbetween and when the time comes we wouldnt have to get back together if we didnt want to or had someone else. Well, i want to date now. but she insists that her parents would kill her if she started dating me again. so, my problem is, what the fuck should i do?


tl;dr: girl dumps me, wants to get back together next year when she comes to my college to hide it from her parents, and i dont know what to do

obv choice 1

I had a girlfriend in high school, i went to college 9 hours away by car and she was in high school still (senior). Long distance worked ok, until i realised last month that she is still my gf from high school and i need to fucking move on. started dating a girl at my school (NOT long distance) and i am a lot happier in the non-long distance relationship at school.

There are PLENTY of other girls in the sea willing to date you (unless ur fuck ugly or socially retarded, or u just have no game) so i say fuck her

u dont need to date someone whose parent hate you cuz if you get married then u have inlaws that hate you and its really really bad. if you dont get married and you know that then why keep dating?

forget about her dude

it depends how you really feel about her
if she is just pretty face or easy fuck then its obviously choice #1 for you
if you do feel something special about her then tell her parents to fuck off, ofc

Choice one.

Waiting a year to date your ex again is pretty much the worst idea I have heard.

Suggest that she visit you, fuck her a few times, then tell her it's not going to work out. This will tell her both "no" and "fuck off" and she won't bother you again.

Voted number 4.
Don't have to be hostile though, you can try talking to them and if it doesn't work out tell them to go fuck themselves.

ya i am leaning towards #1 myself, and nah dont worry i can get other girls i brought one home last night..

and her parents hate me a lot, so i dont think it is worth it, especially because she is to pussy to rebel against them.

well i used to be in love with her, it kinda faded when i went away. but after talking to her again it is starting to come back. she is a hot girl and has everything i look for in a woman. but, the parents hate me with a passion. and she is really close with her mom and shit...

ya, i want to make up my mind by thanksgiving break and will use the " hit it and quit it " tactic during that weekend if i decide that.

at this point i dont think i would even be welcome into the house. because her mom saw that i txted her last week and flipped shit on her saying why the hell are u talking to that asshole etc etc.

nvm fucked one of my best friends last month.

all over.

thx for the help boys.

-billy

pussou

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