its been a good 4-5 months and you know the first two consisted of me being constantly lied to and ultimately lead her to cheating on me with her ex. i know the past is hard to get over but for months and months while we first started dating she always told him she loved him behind my back. she always used to say the most immoral and degrading stuff towards me that made me feel like shit. we split up a few times and i feel like she made a dramatic change after she cheated. i just still feel like the way she treats me is nothing like i'd ever treat a person i am with. now it has been 2 solid months of no breaking up with minimal fighting but something still isn't right. i know i dont wanna say its over and i wanna be friends because once this girl matures and changes she will be one in a million. but for my sake i feel like i cant be down all the time just because of a girl. i feel like ive tried everything there is and i always live by the motto i cant help you if you dont wanna help yourself.
what to do rew? joe? spencer? phil? seth? dan?

This post has been edited by Raffles on Mon - Apr 19 2010 - 14:01:41

i am just tired of being good natured and sticking it out every day

You can't or should I say shouldn't try to change people...they are who they are and you can't hope them to be or grow into something they arnt.

You should just stick with what you are most familiar with and abort her.

poop in Nick's Love Line

o wait....

all jokes aside about the abortion, do you really believe you cant help someone grow and change em?

this might be the first and only time i say something genuine to you, so read.

You're young, you shouldn't have to work that hard to make something work now. If it's clearly working now, it probably won't. I regret being in relationships for most of my teens/early 20s. Have fun and worry about heavy relationship stuff later.

appreciate it
im thinking since prom is saturday after that night im gonna say i wanna be friends

What I said was sincere and I had to throw the rafflols part into it to keep it in perspective.

Exclusions from this being if said person is trending towards self destructive behavior and you interact to help them. Help them meaning help them morally/physically/emotionally. clearly helping them b something there clearly because it's what you want

If she treats you like shit why would you even want to be friends?I'd say leave the option out there for but don't force it...if she wants to she can get in contact with you.

didn't read

abortion

yeah but i feel like ive been dealth the bad hand so many times in a row now.
girl with abortion - 6 month relationship [4 of which she was in juvi,rehab] and i found out a few months ago
she took a whole bunch of depressents/pain killers to kill the baby
girl after that - 2 months went back to her ex, leaving her ex in the same spot i was and thats the girl im dating now
girl now - 4 months i feel like i deserve to put a little more into it so i dont get fucked

outside looking in, its time to move on
ive rarely ever seen these things turn out happily ever after

Do clearly be so sure that will ever happen

It's high school.

hit it & quit it.

she's clearly going to change, clearly now clearly ever. Bitches is crazy.

You said it yourself, it feels wrong. If your in love with the girl you want to be with, you will know it.
From that poop, it sounds like you've had enough, and you've already made up your mind. End it amicably.

Fuck bitches, get money.


No seriously, this chick deserves nothing, clearly(wordfilter) one shred of time from you so stop responding completely.
Talk to other girls, don't get intimate, but you can flirt -- no harm in that. Just keep doing your own shit, they'll flock towards you. I mean this 100%.

This post has been edited by seth on Mon - Apr 19 2010 - 17:52:34

yo on a positive note i have my mind halfway made up, i'll do it saturday after senior prom or stick it out and stop bitching all the while i will slowly degrade until im making everyones lives miserable because mine is

is there a tldr version available

burn your bridges, only way to do it

Rape her. And then make her have another abortion and then maybe she will have a drug overdose.

amirite? or amirite?

Oh, you're in highschool. I thought you were just a bitch.
Either way, these things happen in highschool, ya dig? we've all gone through it, just be smart now and realize that some people aren't worth your time at all, and keep it at that.

what was it? algebra, bad lunch and infidelity as best described by clerks?

try and get some after prom is ofc.. then do it

but for serious... if you say she is making your life miserable why wait? do it now and hold your head up high and don't worry about her.

another idea would be to give her some anti-depressants and contemplate whether you are going to tell her dad about it

or you could just piss in her car's gas tank

I used to sweat mad useless bitches like that yo, then I realized I had to be all about my dick.

Chick is useless and you won't realize it until you waste even more of your youth on her.

Your young, don't catch feelings just fuck lots and lots of chicks man. Don't think that any chick needs charity cock either.

Trust us yo, we're black. We're #2 at clearly giving a fuck behind mexicans, and #1 in terms of pimp lineage.

I still think one of the first things pooped itt was the best piece of advice. NN gansta hoes bros and everyones toes word up hoochie hoochie wigga WAT

Don't listen to me, that's the medication talking shit

itt: Seth and ayo team up to spread the word

think of it this way, why are you in a relationship in the first place? because you ultimately want to be happy

are you happy?
if yes, continue relationship
if no, terminate relationship

if you cant trust a woman she will drive you fucking PSYCHO, and this is clearly an exaggeration, and has nothing to do with anything you can do, its out of your control

shits hard because when its good its great and when its bad its terrible
but everythings fine now =/

thats how it was with my ex, i know exactly how you feel

if you dont trust eachother it just wont work out, and i realized that when i was still with her

i wasnt ready to move on but i had the presence of mind to start emotionally detaching myself from her so when the inevitable came i was partially ready for it, and got head from her friend

allowing each other to grow generally only happens when you let eachother go so then can grow

this is some homo shit, get all up in her business like youre auditing her, she'll love you more that way

i why i keep clicking on this toilet ...

put your penis in her so it can grow

two days ago we had a huge fight and she cried for two hours and i tried walking away it just wasnt happening that night

she changed some shit around here in the past few days she actually clearly fighting with me and she acts more caring
but its a little bit too late im afraid

you cant keep giving chance after chance and your all everytime
this time im clearly giving her my all, or for that matter another day

tonights the night!-- prom is tonight.. she wants to get a hotel tonight and is begging me to go. alright, i'll go little lady but the next day on your way home youre getting some bad news
wish me luck

Make sure you fuck her good. Put every single 125lbs pounds you have into it.

i dumped a girl a week before her prom last year

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