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#784691 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 18:50:37
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To briefly summarize:

- Roommate is dating crazy girl
- Crazy girl is always yelling / fighting / making noise because angry 100% of the time I've seen her (legit never seen her happy, or even smile)
- Crazy girl calls police on my roommate making up some fake story about domestic abuse, roommate gets arrested anyway because he didn't show up for court and had a warrant
- Roommate files restraining order against crazy girl and breaks up with her
- She is now over and they are "talking"

I pulled my roommate aside and told him I don't want her in our apartment ever again, if he's going to be retarded enough to get back together with her I don't give a shit, he can just spend time with her at her (parent's) house, just clearly here. He said I was being immature and unreasonable, I said if I ever see her near this place again I'm going to call the police.

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#784693 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 18:52:49
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she hot?
 
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Quote (boblong11 @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:52:49)
she hot?


 
#784695 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 18:55:37
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from my personal experience: never get in the middle of someone else fight or never try to tell anyone what to do, if they haven't asked your opinion
 
#784696 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 18:59:29
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get high, have a threesome and fall in love with your roommate
 
#784697 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 18:59:53
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Quote (xstakemx @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:59:29)
get high, have a threesome and fall in love with your roommate


whoops guess thats clearly the advice you were looking for
 
#784698 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:07:21
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Quote (boblong11 @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:52:49)
she hot?


shes one of those bitches thats like 90 pounds and tries really hard to look/act hot, but always has a sour attitude and ends up wearing too much makeup. i guess by a lot of standards you could call her "hot", but having been around her for more than 5 minutes i am clearly attracted to her in the slightest

Quote (Vogan @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:55:37)
from my personal experience: never get in the middle of someone else fight or never try to tell anyone what to do, if they haven't asked your opinion


its someone elses fight, but its my fucking house.
 
#784699 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:15:46
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just watch your back m8, i guess it's one of those "u rage, u lose" situations
 
#784700 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:17:02
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Quote (Vogan @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:15:46)
just watch your back m8, i guess it's one of those "u rage, u lose" situations


I'm clearly the one raging, she's the one who has done nothing but started yelling at him for no reason from like 1-3 AM and storming out slamming doors, getting all of my neighbors to hate me because of the noise coming from my apartment. clearly to mention me hating her because of the noise coming from my apartment.
 
#784710 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:10:16
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show em whos baus
 
#784715 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:17:08
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You are being reasonable, and if anything disruptive happens, you should call the police with an anonymous noise complaint (or at least ask them to keep you out of it).
 
#784716 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:17:21
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you can let him know exactly how crazy you think she is and how you will clearly support her being there at all. i guess you have the right to tell him she aint welcome there at all, but only you can judge your friendship with him enough to know how that ultimatum would play out. make them go to her place though, i think you are fully within your right to clearly welcome her to your place

so he has a restraining order against this chick but still thinks "she can change" or some shit?
 
#784717 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:17:38
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ohh look, hedo poops hippie comes out of the woodwork
 
#784718 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:17:48
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Quote (blind_chief @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 17:17:38)
ohh look, hedo poops hippie comes out of the woodwork


its almost like they are the same person
 
#784724 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:32:38
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Quote (Zodijackyl @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:17:08)
You are being reasonable, and if anything disruptive happens, you should call the police with an anonymous noise complaint (or at least ask them to keep you out of it).


This is the truth. If there is a restraining order, then that girl is beyond dumb
 
#784725 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:46:18
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instead of bitching her out on the internet and getting red faced at your roommate for wanting pussy, confront her and she'll eventually stay away. or you can run to the police like a spineless fuck.

Quote (hedonism @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:07:21)
its someone elses fight, but its my fucking house


house =/= apartment. leave your daddy issues out of this. it's his place as much as it is yours.
 
#784727 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:53:38
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Quote (hippie @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 17:46:18)
instead of bitching her out on the internet and getting red faced at your roommate for wanting pussy, confront her and she'll eventually stay away. or you can run to the police like a spineless fuck.

Quote (hedonism @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:07:21)
its someone elses fight, but its my fucking house


house =/= apartment. leave your daddy issues out of this. it's his place as much as it is yours.


mexicans dont like cops
noted
 
#784737 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 21:33:02
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Quote (hippie @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 21:46:18)
instead of bitching her out on the internet and getting red faced at your roommate for wanting pussy, confront her and she'll eventually stay away. or you can run to the police like a spineless fuck.

Quote (hedonism @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:07:21)
its someone elses fight, but its my fucking house


house =/= apartment. leave your daddy issues out of this. it's his place as much as it is yours.


Whether I own or rent, I still pay to live there. She doesn't. I think it's much more reasonable to side with the person who is uncomfortable with a person there, than the person who needs her there. I'm paying to provide her a place to vent her anger.
 
#784738 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 21:33:18
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itt: hippie reveals that he still lives with his parents
 
#784744 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 22:47:22
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put your foot down and tell her that you wimp. or does she intimidate you? i don't care man, stop bitching at me

itt: hedonism reveals he has no penis
 
#784745 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 22:48:39
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i want updates btw
 
#784746 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 22:50:56
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Quote (hippie @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 23:47:22)
put your foot down and tell her that you wimp. or does she intimidate you? i don't care man, stop bitching at me

itt: hedonism reveals he has no penis


I have, several times, before it escalated to the police being called. Respectable white folk resolve their problems without knives and broken beer bottles and shit.
 
#784747 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 23:07:15
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whatever bro. all white people do is bitch or cry to police. can't ever solve your problems yourself. i would've just stared at her boobs with a rape face until she got freaked out and left for good.
 
#784764 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 23:16:33
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Quote (hedonism @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 22:50:56)
Respectable white folk


you are a drug addict
 
#784768 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 23:17:20
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Quote (hippie @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:07:15)
whatever bro. all white people do is bitch or cry to police. can't ever solve your problems yourself. i would've just stared at her boobs with a rape face until she got freaked out and left for good.


rape that bitch
 
#784772 | Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 23:23:43
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Quote (blind_chief @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 23:17:20)
Quote (hippie @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 20:07:15)
whatever bro. all white people do is bitch or cry to police. can't ever solve your problems yourself. i would've just stared at her boobs with a rape face until she got freaked out and left for good.


rape that bitch


relax gramps
 
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Quote (hedonism @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:07:21)
shes one of those bitches thats like 90 pounds and tries really hard to look/act hot, but always has a sour attitude and ends up wearing too much makeup.  i guess by a lot of standards you could call her "hot", but having been around her for more than 5 minutes i am clearly attracted to her in the slightest


Give her a big hug and accidentally break her in half, or at least crush some organs while you're trying.

You could also just inform the police that a restraining order is being violated if they are in any way disruptive. It sounds inevitable from your description, so picking the right time will make it that much easier.
 
#784786 | Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 00:44:16
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didnt read
 
#784795 | Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 07:07:20
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Quote (smoked @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 00:44:16)
didnt read


 
#784803 | Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 09:19:33
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Quote (hippie @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 00:07:15)
whatever bro. all white people do is bitch or cry to police. can't ever solve your problems yourself. i would've just stared at her boobs with a rape face until she got freaked out and left for good.


if you had any reading/comprehension skills at all, it got to this point because SHE called the police, and i do clearly want that to happen again

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Quote (hedonism @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:07:21)
shes one of those bitches thats like 90 pounds and tries really hard to look/act hot, but always has a sour attitude and ends up wearing too much makeup.  i guess by a lot of standards you could call her "hot", but having been around her for more than 5 minutes i am clearly attracted to her in the slightest


Give her a big hug and accidentally break her in half, or at least crush some organs while you're trying.

You could also just inform the police that a restraining order is being violated if they are in any way disruptive. It sounds inevitable from your description, so picking the right time will make it that much easier.


yeah, the only problem is that it would get both of them arrested. i like my roommate, he just has terrible judgment.
 
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Quote (hedonism @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 09:19:33)
Quote (Zodijackyl @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 00:59:54)
Quote (hedonism @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 19:07:21)
shes one of those bitches thats like 90 pounds and tries really hard to look/act hot, but always has a sour attitude and ends up wearing too much makeup.  i guess by a lot of standards you could call her "hot", but having been around her for more than 5 minutes i am clearly attracted to her in the slightest


Give her a big hug and accidentally break her in half, or at least crush some organs while you're trying.

You could also just inform the police that a restraining order is being violated if they are in any way disruptive. It sounds inevitable from your description, so picking the right time will make it that much easier.


yeah, the only problem is that it would get both of them arrested. i like my roommate, he just has terrible judgment.


Remind him of that and tell him to clearly invite her over. If he invites her over in violation of a restraining order, then he knows what he is risking if they become disruptive.
 
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tell him to be like MJ and BEAT IT!!!!
 
#784810 | Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 13:06:33
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I don't think you're being unreasonable.
If you're telling him as a friend, I think thats a good thing.
If you're telling him as a roommate, tell him that if shit is getting crazy all the time he needs to do something about it. I think its reasonable to believe that even if you don't do something, one of your neighbors will start complaining and its going to end poorly anyways.
 
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Quote (hippie @ Fri - Mar 4 2011 - 23:47:22)
put your foot down and tell her that you wimp. or does she intimidate you? i don't care man, stop bitching at me

itt: hedonism reveals he has no penis


I don't know what kind of friendships you've made. But I would never talk to a friends girlfriend without talking to the friend first. Its your job to give the friend advice but its clearly your job nor your right to fix problems for the person.
 
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Quote (DCC @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 12:16:04)
tell him to be like MJ and BEAT IT!!!!


be like a TREE and LEAVE!!!!
 
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Quote (StQ @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 11:02:32)
Quote (DCC @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 12:16:04)
tell him to be like MJ and BEAT IT!!!!


be like a TREE and LEAVE!!!!


MAKE LIKE A TREE AND SCRAM
 
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Quote (blind_chief @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 14:03:22)
Quote (StQ @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 11:02:32)
Quote (DCC @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 12:16:04)
tell him to be like MJ and BEAT IT!!!!


be like a TREE and LEAVE!!!!


MAKE LIKE A TREE AND SCRAM


make like a tree and GET THE FUCK OUT
 
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no you're fine. fuck that bitch.
 
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and punch your friend in the face. it'll teach him a lesson
 
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Quote (hedonism @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 09:19:33)
if you had any reading/comprehension skills at all, it got to this point because SHE called the police, and i do clearly want that to happen again


and i bet she's white. ''i have petty relationship problems, let me get the police involved''

that wasn't even my point. i was referring to this

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I pulled my roommate aside and told him I don't want her in our apartment ever again. I said if I ever see her near this place again I'm going to call the police.


Quote (ppkpkppk @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 13:08:20)
I don't know what kind of friendships you've made. But I would never talk to a friends girlfriend without talking to the friend first. Its your job to give the friend advice but its clearly your job nor your right to fix problems for the person.


it's like you people are scared of talking to girls. gang life is different. we don't fuck around or take shit. everything is out in the open. if there is a problem we confront it and get rid of it. it's a brotherhood. if the roommate doesn't know how to handle it because he's incompetent, that gives you permission to take matters into your own hands. hedonism has said that he already confronted her several times anyway (doubt it though, he was probably raiding in a corner with a dirty hoodie on), silence muhammad
 
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gang life is different
 
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Quote (___ @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 18:24:30)
gang life is different


no distractions

i see you understand, the military can be considered a gang too
 
#784833 | Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 19:16:53
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>hippie
>gang life
>us east
 
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picture of a prom picture, this fucking guy

your glory days are done, get over it

and you are correct, our operations are mainly in the east coast of the united states

 
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its hardo ut here for a pimp
 
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Quote (___ @ Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 19:24:30)
gang life is different


most gang members are on the internet at 10 pm on friday night

This post has been edited by Du$tin on Sat - Mar 5 2011 - 20:53:38
 
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get a restraining order yourself against her? gf
 
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if he has restraining order against her, its clearly a problem to get rid of her if shes there, call the cops, they like police work
 
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ill be that guy
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